What’s your focus?
Competence, and being right? Or a focus on always moving forward?
Can you focus on “getting it right”, being okay with failure and moving forward? It may depend what “getting it right” means to you, but I believe you can have your cake and eat it too (and rhyme!).
The truth is, we can still move forward when we don’t get it right, and we can move forward faster, quicker, and hopefully cheaper than when our singular focus is just on being correct.
No one wants to fail.
But, there are some times when we need failure to keep us moving forward – it is often where our best learning and growth (i.e. innovation) comes from. We can choose to manage our reaction to failure, to greet it with a smile and use it to our advantage.
We may end up preferring failure to get us closer to where we want to go.
You can build competence by creating a safe place to make mistakes and fail.
Getting it right versus getting it completely wrong may just be in how you view failure.
Yes, and you failed. Keep moving forward.